SISTER ACT Author JESSICA FELLOWES explains her obsession with the six socialites who inspired her new novel S ix aristocratic sisters, each of whom come of age between the wars and grows up to become: a novelist; a dairy farmer; a fascist; a Nazi; a Communist; a duchess. Therein lies the root of my fascination with the Mitford sisters: Nancy, Pamela, Diana, Unity, Jessica and Deborah. (There was also a brother, Tom, understandably overshadowed by his sisters and tragically killed in action at the end of the second world war.) What made the young girls in the nursery of Asthall Manor grow up to become these fascinating women? We know a lot from their combined prodigious literary output. Not just the novels of Nancy, or the memoirs of Diana and Jessica, or even the chicken-raising tips of Deborah but their letters. The six sisters wrote to each other frequently over their long lifetimes, even throughout fractious disagreements and political standoffs. There are also several other published volumes of their letters to other great personalities and writers of their era. They wrote, I think, somewhat selfconsciously, always aware of their celebrity their mother once said, Whenever I see in a headline peers daughter, I know its going to be about one of you children yet they are deliciously unguarded, gossipy, spiky and witty. There are several exhortations, obviously ignored, to burn this. Their fascination is nonetheless a conundrum. Deborah, the Duchess of Devonshire, was probably the nicest of the lot, and Pamela the most stalwart, but they were on the whole a fairly unsympathetic bunch. Nancy was the unhappiest, largely repressed in her letters, instead using her bitterness to produce the most dangerous rapier wit against those she disliked. Yet Id give anything to drink martinis with the woman who said: I am sometimes bored by people but never with life. There was sibling rivalry aplenty, a constant thrum of bickering, and there are frequent discrepancies as to what happened in their childhood and what their parents were really like, which is reassuring to anyone with tricky family dynamics Jessica Fellowes of their own (er, everyone?). Which makes it all the more remarkable that Jessica, the committed Communist (she and her first husband ran away to Spain to fight Franco), would secretly meet with Unity, who had gone to Munich in order to befriend Hitler (and succeeded). They understood that although ones political beliefs are of course fundamental to ones values, we are all made up of complex layers and it is possible to disagree with the people one loves; a nuance of discourse that we are in danger of losing today. With their unlikeable politics and an arrogance of their class that propelled them through life, we shouldnt like them but we do. They were absolutely themselves, caring little what others said, and loyal to each other and their causes, even in conflict. They represent so much of that intense period of the 1930s that is in parallel with today understanding them may help us get to grips with our own troubled 21st century. The Mitford Trial by Jessica Fellowes is published by Sphere on November 5, £13.99. Inspired by a real life murder in 1933, at its heart are the six Mitford sisters. There is sibling RIVALRY aplenty, a constant thrum of bickering ... Why Dont You ... Make Your Own Book Seal? Ive always been fascinated by peoples personal book collections and, of course, many people shared theirs on social media during lockdown, says fashion designer Lou Brennan. I love the decorative labels and seals that are found on the endpapers of many books. Historically, many booklovers commissioned artists to create now highly collectable bespoke designs, often starting with the Latin, ex libris, or From the library of ... followed by the owners name. Brennan suggests one way to keep busy over the long winter is to create a personal library with your own book seal. It can be simple with just your name or you can incorporate a design. The Dublin company, Royal Rubber Stamps, can help with this. An embossed seal also adds a stylish finishing touch to letter writing. Brennan designed an embroideress seal for herself (she translates Irelands rich textile history into her silk and paisley scarf designs, and teaches needlepoint on Instagram). Her idea of a book seal would make a lovely Christmas gift. Royal Rubber Stamps offers a quick turnaround so theres plenty of time to order. www.royalrubberstamps.com. Bespoke book seal by Royal Rubber Stamps. HAL SHINNIE BOOKS ON MY BEDSIDE TABLE Anne Glenconner, 87, a Maid of Honour at the Queens Coronation, married Colin Tennant, Lord Glenconner in 1956. In 1958 she and her husband began to transform the island of Mustique into a paradise for the rich and famous, including Princess Margaret, about whom she wrote in her memoir Lady in Waiting, My Extraordinary Life in the Shadow of the Crown. The island of Mustique is the setting for her debut novel, which begins with the disappearance of American heiress Amanda Fontini after a morning swim. When her body is discovered, a murder investigation begins. Heres what shes reading: The Windsor Diaries, by Alathea Fitzalan Howard, who lived alongside the young Princesses Elizabeth and Margaret at Windsor Castle during the Second World War, was published last month. I found it fascinating and incredibly moving in parts. I knew Alathea a little and so many of her experiences in life were similar to my own we both lived through the war, and of course we both knew the Queen and Princess Margaret when they were young. As well as being laugh-outloud funny in parts, I found the diary entries very poignant, as she clearly had spells of real unhappiness in her life. She was incredibly observant and had a great eye for detail. The book gives a real insight into life in the Royal Household during the war, all told with a dash of teenage angst and humour. Jane Austen at Home by Lucy Worsley. Im a huge Jane Austen fan and have always loved her novels, especially Emma and Pride and Prejudice. I enjoy re-reading them as well as watching any new television or film adaptations. It was only after reading Lucy Worsleys biography that I realised how little I really knew about Austen herself. Jane is vividly brought to life and the book is very, very well written. I loved it. My Cousin Rachel by Daphne du Maurier. My new book is a murder mystery and Ive always loved reading novels that are full of suspense. I recently re-read My Cousin Rachel. Its so atmospheric and intriguing I love the Cornish setting and youre never quite sure whether Rachel can be trusted. Murder on Mustique by Anne Glenconner will be published on November 12 by Hodder & Stoughton, £16.99. THE GLOSS MAGAZINE November 2020 55 THE JOY IN SMALL THINGS / MOOD-BOOSTING COLOUR / FESTIVE PREP / PARK BENCH SOCIAL LIFE / LITTLE LUXURIES / DARK FLORALS MAGAZINE NOVEMBER 2020 .ie www.thegloss with THE IRISH TIMES & DEAREST NEAREST THIS IS OUR SOCIAL BUBBLE BROWN THOMAS, GRAFTON STREET, DUBLIN 2 CONTENTS IN THIS ISSUE ALWAYS ON A THURSDAY NEXT ISSUE THE GLOSS will ALWAYS be published with The Irish Times on the first Thursday of every month. 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