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Buddies on tour
Jennifer Sheahan serves up a guide to holidaying
in Ireland with a convoy of chums and their families
P
icture this: its a cold, wet
day in January. Youre
lying on your couch binging re-runs of Arrested Development and avoiding reality,
when your phone buzzes. You pick
it up, and the notification says you
have been added to the WhatsApp
group Ireland Holibops 2026. You
and 12 others, you realise, bringing
the grand total to nearly 40 when
you include their spouses and offspring, plus various pets.
We should get something in the
diary for summer, Yes, I need a
holiday!, and various other enthusiastic but non-committal messages
follow, then silence for a few months,
before a flurry of panic sets in and
someone takes the lead on getting the
thing booked. And youre off again
for another few days down the
country with your mates and their
entourages. The annual group staycation. Here are my hard-learned lessons on how to make it a fun one.
First, be honest with yourself
I should declare my position here. I
dont have children (part anatomical
failing, part choice). I love children
however, and my friends and family
have plenty of them, so I am happily
included in such group trips. Provided
they never use the word holibops.
This kind of holiday is not for everybody, and there is no shame in that. If
youarepreciousaboutyourthings,your
space, or a long hot shower, you will
have a miserable time and everyone will
know it. Additionally, if you dont hang
around with these people generally,
dont go on holidays together. A week in
a house will not repair a friendship or
strengthen a family dynamic thats already ropey. Drop in for a day trip if you
really need to show face.
Somebody has to be in charge
A cosy night in at Cabu by the lakes, on the shores of Lough Oughter in Co Cavan.
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September 2026
Democracy is lovely in theory, but is it
really holding up in practice? Twelve
adults trying to align on dates in August is like herding cats, and the cats all
have different summer camps. Somebody needs to take charge, do the research, and make executive decisions.
A benign dictator, if you will.
If you are that dictator, know that
ABOVE: When
holidaying in
groups, plan
for food that is
easy to throw
together,
crowd-pleasing choices
everyone will
be happy
with.
Photo: iStock
WhatsApp polls are useful, but only
for narrowing things down. Put up
two or three properties you have
checked are available, give people 48
hours to vote, and book the winner.
Where will we go? will just get you
90 messages and no holiday.
Sort the money at the outset. Set
up a Revolut group and get everybody to pay their share in advance,
before the booking is made. Dont
set yourself up for resentment.
Do the sums and dont deviate
Most people book on bedroom count
alone, which is insufficient. Bathrooms
needtoentertheequation.Workoutthe
sleeping arrangements before you commit - who is sharing with whom, which
family needs a cot, and where to put the
snorers in the group.
Do not solve a shortfall by putting
beds into the living space. Listings love
boasting sleeps up to 12 but the fine
print says four of those are on a pullout couch in the sitting room. Grand
for a night, hell for a week. You need
that space for the midnight chats.
Which brings me to the best advice I have: two smaller houses beat
one crammed house every time.
Two cottages on the same site, or a
cluster of cabins, gives everybody a
door to hide their mess behind, and
often costs around the same.
The house is the holiday
With a group this size you are not booking a location for the nearby attractions. You are booking a holiday home,
and you will spend most of your time in
it. What you want is one enormous
kitchentable,alivingareathatseatsall
the adults, and some outdoor space to
let the kids and pets go bananas.
We had a brilliant weekend at Ross
Castle in Connemara, which one of the
group found and booked directly. It
sleeps up to 40, comfortably in my experience - we were close to that
number. Theres a huge kitchen, a
massive garden, and a fantastic indoor
heated pool that occupied the children
for hours. Critically, it had a great
washing machine which I learned is a
godsend with messy children.
It was not without incident. I
went back to my room one after-
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